Hey everyone....I have one more question that I need advice on in relation to this situation with my mean sister in law and brother in law. My husband and my 2 daughters will be at their vow renewal ceremony and I will not be as I previously stated. My Brother in Law is a weasel. He takes pride in calling people out on things in a public place in order to embarrass them and humiliate them. My young girls are very sensitive people. I fully expect my slimy, rude Brother In Law to ask my girls in front of many people "Why did your mother not come to our ceremony?" Yes, he's just that disgusting. I know he will do this as he's a snake. What should I tell my girls to say?