I want people's honest opinion. I already know what I am going to do, but I am interested in the opinions of others on this subject. I was friends with a person who went behind my back and told my husband something that showed she either never listened to me, or, simply wanted to look like the "better" person in the moment. (She had done to me that with others, but THIS was why I ended the friendship.) This was about 20 years or more ago now. We DID have some really fun times, and we are older women now. Ok. What would YOU do? Please be honest and don't judge anyone else. You cannot be wrong on an opinion.