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Originally Posted by WishfulThinker66
It think there is a good chance here you have misinterpreted what the therapist said. Also, you seem to be having repeated difficulties with such services - over and over and over again. Perhaps time to do a self-evaluation? Is there then a cause for this? Is this also happening consistently with the same people? Is your therapist's comment perhaps then founded in this fact? I don't know what to say positively here. There is a problem that is happening a great deal and you are the constant.
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Hi WishfulThinker66,
I want to thank you for sharing this. It is a perfect example of victim blaming and shaming and showcases the kind of thinking that perpetuates further abuse in systems like healthcare. In saying this, I welcome you to think about what you have written and ask yourself why you jumped to that conclusion. I also recommend reading up on societal gaslighting. Society has a tendency to view the survivor as the culprit, especially when it happens more than once. I think a lot of people struggle to accept the fact that repeated abuse happens to those who have been abused. Of course, if you don't know anything about complex trauma and relationship dynamics, I welcome you to read up on repitition compulsions, trauma bonding and self-fulfilling prophecies. Also, those with complex PTSD find themselves in exploitive relationships, while this is correlated with the symptomatology, the real problem is not that complex PTSD survivors make themselves vulnerable time and time again, but that those who they show vulnerability around choose to take advantage of it.
That is a problem, isn't it?
I have heard the theory that I am the constant before. I actually believed this for a time, that is until I researched Institutional Betrayal and discovered that the only constant is that those in power abuse with impunity. Considering the inherent power imbalances found in therapy as well as the lack of accountability, it makes sense that abuse should happen in systems like these. Add to this the fact that professionals generally don't even acknowledge the vast abuse that takes place - similar to Catholic Clergy. This also perpetuates abuse.
I would have been triggered by your post if it were not for the fact that I am not the common denominator here. Alteration and falsification of medical records, unethical malpractise, a culture of fear and intimidation that enforces coverups and lack of accountability, normalization of deviance, these are things that exist whether I am in the picture or not. The only constant is a pattern of shady behavior found in healthcare and believe me - it is being exposed.
I could go on and on but really, I don't feel like giving you my peace of mind. Rest in knowing that your perspective is false and that your behavior is a product of ignorance and societal gaslighting.
Thanks,
HD7970ghz