I am repeating patterns in my relationships and it’s bothering me a lot. I ignored all the red flags and my most current breakup the guy is psychologically abusive and an alcoholic in denial. He has a lot of mental issues as well. My farther was an alcoholic so it’s bothersome why I stayed so long even though I witnessed red flag after red flag, including a dark past and him admitting he had depression and he went to a dark place. Also seems narcissistic because he blaming his issues on me..I know it’s good it ended after only 4 months than a year from now. I just want to stop attracting these types of partners who use and abuse.