Thanks a lot for understanding. I really appreciate it. The thing is that she knows I don't like discussing my own kinks because of my trauma but she thinks it's only related to my own kinks, not everyone else's. I might have to tell her that's just how I feel in general. I want to be there for her as a friend, but this event made me realize that discussing her kinks is a bit too much for me. In return, I won't talk too much about my other issues as I feel it's only fair to balance things out. Thank you for responding without judgment.