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Gracey said:

she said to me, "I can't be on that list."

Oh
My
God.

My stomach bottomed out.


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Hey. I understand totally. I moved 700 miles away from my old T and almost the exact same thing happened. She did not say it like that, but she was clear that I needed a T here because she was too far away to take that responsibility. That she could not be there in a crisis because she could take no action. It hurt, but when I thought about it, I realized I was putting her in jeopardy.....because even though we don't like to admit to, this is T's job. And their job has rules...legally if something happened to me, she could get in trouble.

IT's so complicated.......and sooo hard for us. But your T probably did not mean to hurt your feelings, but the "reality" is what it is....

I hope you find a new T that is as great as your old T. I am trying right now too