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Apr 16, 2019, 06:06 AM
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Member Since: Apr 2014
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Originally Posted by saidso
I think there is usually a status quo - even here on PC there is a status quo - and because humans are primed to be social in groups they tend to emphasise and defend the status quo. There is good in that because human beings are primed to be social but it can also be oppressive.
It's great to see you emerging Seesaw, and articulating how you feel! I can feel how difficult it is for you. Perhaps have confidence that the more you speak out internally and in "safe" places, the more strengthened those connections will become, until people enjoy your differences rather than feeling uncomfortable with them.
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Thank you, @ saidso! I have been still struggling with this but also went a found sagee spaces for myself.
I wanted to post more here but was kind of torn between trying to grow and move on and legitimately needing more encouragement and validation that my feelings are okay. So I appreciate your support at this moment!
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Primary Dx: C-PTSD and Severe Chronic Treatment Resistant Major Depressive Disorder
Secondary Dx: Generalized Anxiety Disorder with mild Agoraphobia.
Meds I've tried: Prozac, Zoloft, Celexa, Effexor, Remeron, Elavil, Wellbutrin, Risperidone, Abilify, Prazosin, Paxil, Trazadone, Tramadol, Topomax, Xanax, Propranolol, Valium, Visteril, Vraylar, Selinor, Clonopin, Ambien
Treatments I've done: CBT, DBT, Transcranial Magnetic Stimulation (TMS), Talk therapy, psychotherapy, exercise, diet, sleeping more, sleeping less...
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