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Originally Posted by SlumberKitty
T--I'm upset with you that you had to cancel. I understand things come up. But I need you today and you're not there. In fact, I'm starting to realize you aren't there for me most of the time. You've never said stuff like, "I'm on your team" like former T would. You probably never give me a second thought anyway. I'm really upset with you. At the same time, I hope everything is okay for you. I don't know what you meant by family emergency. I hope it's not serious. Kit
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Hugs Kit,
I wish I had answers for you. I can say, though, I understand qhwee you are coming from. One of the things I really struggle with when it comes to Emdr T vs T is when I was really struggling with something T always said we will get through this together. It made feel like I wasn't alone and a lost cause. EMDR T doesn't say anything like that. I have said things like "I know we will get through this" she never comments or anything on that part of what I say.
It is hard when they miss and we are prepared to see them and they cancel. T and I discussed this once because I was upset she was frequently canceling due to a new chronic illness. I wasnt mad at her for cancelling or being sick I was frustrated that my appointment was canceled.