Also I'd say to try and make the most of the time you have while he's in there and focus on that. Throw your energy into that while you can. Who knows? While you're focusing on getting your own life squared away, at least you'll feel better and more in control, and who knows? Something may turn up or your brain will be working in the background on the whole matter of your bf, and other possibilities may arise. (((((HUGS)))))