Hugs Kit,

I wish I had answers for you. I can say, though, I understand qhwee you are coming from. One of the things I really struggle with when it comes to Emdr T vs T is when I was really struggling with something T always said we will get through this together. It made feel like I wasn't alone and a lost cause. EMDR T doesn't say anything like that. I have said things like "I know we will get through this" she never comments or anything on that part of what I say.

It is hard when they miss and we are prepared to see them and they cancel. T and I discussed this once because I was upset she was frequently canceling due to a new chronic illness. I wasnt mad at her for cancelling or being sick I was frustrated that my appointment was canceled.