I'm so sorry you're hurting so much, Gymgirl71! I completely agree with what Quarter life and rechu! I'd suggest to you to listen to them as much as you can if you want to! They always give such KIND, GREAT, WISE, WONDERFUL ADVICE to EVERYONE, like in THIS CASE! I completely agree with them about talking to a friend about this and see how it goes from there! Maybe that could help! You could ask them to try to help you to get the things that you've left at his house or get them for you if they can! I'm sure they'll be glad to help you and that they'll understand your situation! If they can't do that, perhaps you could just ask him to just give to you a specific time and place to give to you the things you need to get back! Please NEVER give up HOPE! Try to HANG ON as much as you POSSIBLY CAN! I'm so sorry you have to deal with all of this, Gymgirl71!