My sister's house is filthy, It never used to be that way -in fact it was spotless. She used to take prozac but now she says that she isn't anymore. She has no money but they have really expensive toys (like new big trucks...Tundra...with no gas in it,,a hybrid car and all the latest computer toys.) Could that be the manic part? Then the house is just....animal feces, mold, no cleaning....EVER. Is that the depressive part. What can I do for her. I have two small children and I live 12 hours away. Also, she has children and a husband who has lost like half his body weight. At 50 he looks like a 90 year old man on his death bed. He doesn't seem to be able, or willing to see a problem. There has been such a dramatic shift in living conditions in the past few years, and she just seems unable to focus...flighty...busy...but not in a productive way. I don't mean to sound judgemental...Lord knows I sleep with my dog and have been notorious for my lack of housekeeping. but her house goes beyond that. Animal feces, mold on everthing, garbage....How can i help?