Things came to a head in recent days when i broached this topic of physical intimacy again. Fortunately, it is something she said she does not feel right about anymore and is very interested in working on it. Apparently, her issues of poor body image have had a larger hand in holding her back than i thought. We still have to work through it all before we get to a 'normal' place, but knowing she is open to it makes the entire issue seem welcoming. Indeed, although the conversation to get here was not pleasant, it has made our relationship feel warmer and closer this last week. I hope that you are able to come to a similar point in your difficult relationship.