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Originally Posted by divine1966
OP made same thread last year saying he isn’t sure he wants to marry her and I personally advised not to marry if he isn’t sure. Fast forward a year and same thread, not sure about marriage to her. For couple of years OP posted number of threads about relationship issues with this particular person. I don’t believe it’s wise to marry then.
Couple of posters said he should marry her because he loves her and wants her to be happy. Those of us who are married know that’s not enough. Most divorces happen because people marry wrong people. Not because of lack of love. If love was enough, there would be no divorce
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I would like to point out that this thread isn’t me contemplating whether I want to marry her. What it is actually about is that I’m marrying her for more her sake than mine and when we talk about marriage I’m just not as excited as she is. In my own core beliefs I feel that her moving in was a much bigger step than us getting married.
A lot can happen in a year, shoot a lot can happen in a month. Since then I’ve sought help, worked out my issues, and discovered how much I actually love her. Which is very much. So much that I want to spend my life with her and have kids.