I think we are more aware of them then we think. I think we can be manipulated into self doubt by a "qualified" narcissist into thinking that red flags do not exists. But then we see more of them and our wise mind tried to tell us that they exist but being under the thumb of an experienced abuser we somehow tell ourselves that they dont matter. And then something changes within us, it could be major or just a small shift but it all becomes clear and we are able to see all the red flags, all at once and we are like " Why didnt I see that before?" So we end it- stop the narcissist in their tracks to protect ourselves-we get smart or wise or become enlightened and we are able to kick their sorry butts to the curb.
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