Thanks, Snowangel. It does feel at times that T is being a bit critical of me. Like in his saying I think about therapy and the therapeutic relationship more than any of his other clients. He seems alternately somewhat critical of me and almost fascinated by me. He and I are very different, too, if you couldn't tell! But I think he also helps me in that way, in giving me a different perspective. He says he tries to help me see how other people might react to me (though they might not tell me).