I try to follow the advice “be supportive”

And to “know myself” - that can be harder for many at times I think, especially if triggered (I also think it’s possible that some people online as well as in real life, have been known to use someone’s triggers or perceived “weaknesses” against them.

I know the truth about me and many here, we genuinely try to be supportive. Being human, we are not perfect

Hugs to all