I'm so sorry you're going through all of this, Gymgirl71! I agree with what all the other great, kind, supportive, wise, wonderful posters have already wisely said better than I ever could! You've been given lots of great, kind, supportive, wise and wonderful advice on this thread! Please try to NOT engage with him again! He has already hurt your feelings and his behavior is NOT appropriate at all! You seem to be already aware of that! Good for you! Be proud of yourself for that! Just try ignore him! Block him if he keeps bothering you or if he keeps insisting! You need to take care of yourself first after all! I'm so sorry you're going through all fo this! You don't deserve to suffer AT ALL! Nobody deserves to suffer AT ALL, certainly not such a caring, kind, generous and sweet person LIKE YOU ARE! Sending many hugs to you, Gymgirl71!