My Support Forums - View Single Post - Dear T: I really need to tell you something XXXIX

LabRat27 · Apr 19, 2019, 03:45 AM

You asked about taking it off the table.

Feeling warm. That's what it would take. If you can help me feel warm and like I'm allowed to feel warm and ask for and get what I need for that.
The SH is how I cope with the cold.

I don't know how to ask for that though. I don't know what it means in practice. And I don't know if that would take too much. If that would require more than I can have. I know I want more than I can have.

Possible trigger:

I want to feel the emotional equivalent of crawling into your arms and being safe and warm there. Like my cat when he wants snuggles and headbutts/nuzzles/squeezes himself into my arms to get up against me buries his face in me.