Ah right maybe it was stopdog who said it about manipulation then I was reading the posts quite quickly so couldn't remember who said it just knew it wasn't you.

No, you didn't scare me off.......well....maybe just a little ..... I did receive your responses as a bit hostile and did start to feel hostility back so thought a break would be good..that and I am running around the place so can't give my full attention to my responses. I did remind myself though that any hostility I felt may might not be how they were actually meant (maybe they were....but maybe not hard to know on a message board at times) .. all is good though thanks for clarifying