Thread: Am I "mollycoddling"/pestering?
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Default Apr 20, 2019 at 05:47 AM
 
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Originally Posted by eclairparty98 View Post
You're right, have hope. This couldn't be further from the truth, it's mildly depressing. It's alright, I've already decided I'm going to break up with him - I'm leaving, I'm not sure yet on how to exactly.. we haven't spoke to each other in 2 days and I've really appreciated that. I don't want to ghost him either but I don't want to reach out, I'd rather not speak to him at all. I'm thinking about leaving it for him to reach out and I'll end it. Who knows? Maybe he'll be the one to break up with Me
Ok, so now that you know you want to breakup, why did it not work the first time? Did he cling on? I wouldn’t expect him to break up with you in that case. Just pull the band aid off in one rip. Maybe wait til you hear from him. And yes I would block him after. He doesn’t deserve you.

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