eclair you know we care about you dear. He's such a toxic boyfriend to you and you don't deserve that kind of treatment. I don't think you should wait for him to reach out. Why would you? Just send him a text or email that the relationship is really over now and it's best for you both to just move on. Forgetting him will be difficult at first; you'll want to create reasons to stay in touch with him, in hopes of a reconciliation or at the very least, a platonic friendship. But, don't do that. He's not good for you, as he's proven to you time and time again. Ultimately, the decision is yours to make. All we can do is offer you our support and our opinions here. Good luck dear.