Good girl! Now comes the hard part - staying out of contact with him. Find activities and friends to distract yourself with for the next few weeks b/c these will be the times when you reminisce about the fun you had with him, which will spur you on to reach out to him - which is NOT a good idea. It's like quitting a bad habit - like smoking or drinking - you sometimes need to stop cold turkey and be easy on yourself afterward and find ways to distract yourself when you have a craving for that bad thing.