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Originally Posted by Rive.
Good for you that you put your cards on the table.
I think his response will show whether he is worth his salt as a T or whether you'd be better off with a T who accepts the whole of you. And not, as you correctly point out, selective parts or only content that suits him.
I agree that therapy will only be minimally effective if clients have to keep censoring themselves..
In the meantime, keep T shopping.
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Exactly this!!!
I worked with a “walking on eggshells” therapist for years and didn’t realize until I disengaged how much of a prisoner I became and how much it hindered my growth.
I hope this T is everything you need him to be, and if not, I know you will find someone that you can express yourself openly and honestly with.