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Originally Posted by Open Eyes
Well, you didn't have it all figured out, you are not the first one that is in their 40's that gets hurt and needs to finally wise up and experience the right support to do just that. That means individuals who listen, don't put you down for your mistakes but instead are supportive. I wonder if you have experienced that kind of presence?
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Yes your right..that’s what’s healthy. I never putted vin down for his mistakes as much as he hurt me. Same thing with my ex..neither would take responsibility for their mistakes ever..they just point the finger and gaslight.