Really? Well there is absolutely nothing wrong with me or my husband. At the time I was interested in getting married again (it’s second marriage for both) I knew zero single/divorced/widowed men in my age bracket. I’d not date at work, bad idea, plus no single men at work. I have ton of friends and do ton of activities but no single men there. My hobbies are female oriented so no men there and my social circle is all women, none of them know single men. All my brother’s friends are married. I don’t go to bars as I don’t drink and generally am conservative in my life style. Men in my congregation are married. In my gym I typically do activities that aren’t really conducive to meeting men: Zumba and water aerobics not particularly too many men there. I spend two hours a day commuting to work and back.

So what local dating opportunities was I supposedly exhausted before going online?

You mentioned before that you aren’t happily married. So how is it something is wrong with me finding excellent husband on eharmony and being happily married? Wouldn’t quality of marriage be more important than where we meet our husbands?