It bothers me a bit. I'm just confused as to why he asked "do you want to be this?" Why would I want that? Is he thinking I want to be miserable? It really only started bothering me after the session and now I feel like he was scolding me in someway because he may think my problems are less significant. Like "kid, you don't even know". But if that's the case, I would at least think he would say "no."