Good on you for cutting off all contacts with him, Gymgirl71! I completely agree with what the great, wise and wonderful divine1966 has already wisely said better than I ever could! I'd suggest to listen to her as much as you can if you want! She always gives such great advce to EVERYONE like in this case! I completely agree with what she has alreasy wisely said about blocking him and not letting him contact you EVER again! I completely agree that your stuff can wait if it's not anything too important for you and that cutting out contacts with him is the priority right now! That's just my opinion though! The final decision is up to you of course! I do strongly advice you to block him and to NEVER reply to him as much as you can if you can! He certainly has a lot of nerve contacting you again after everything that has happened into his house! From what you wrote he REALLY seems like scum and he definitely doesn't deserve YOU or anyone else of that matter if he doesn't change his behavior VERY soon! Please NEVER give up hope! Try to HANG ON as much as you possibly CAN! You're a STRONG, WONDERFUL PERSONE! PLEASE ALWAYS REMEMBER THAT because IT IS TRUE! YOU'RE AWESOME, YOU ROCK and YOU KNOW IT! We ALL know that! I'm sure you KNOW THAT as well even if it's deep down inside you! PLEASE ALWAYS REMEMEBER THAT! I'm so sorry you have to deal with all of this, Gymgirl71!