Well, I invested money in online dating and it did nothing good for me. So, to each her/his own. I'd rather save my money for travel or taking a class than ever throw it away to an online dating website again. I can't argue against the fact that it does work for some people. My cousin met his 2nd wife through eHarmony and they've been married for six years and have a child together. So, you and Hope are right, divine1966, that online dating or real life is a crap shoot. I just prefer in-person crap shoots to online dating crap shoots; much cheaper that way. ;D