you dont have to let him do anything , tell its over tell to stay away, if he goes to hit you or hits you you can report it he needs to know its wrong now or he will carry on with this sort of behaviour as he grows up,
if you have a local police station go to them ask them if they would talk to your ex for you explain he is out of order and explain the consequencies if it carrys on
that should scare him to stop
dont feel guilty he is using your feelings as blackmail to get his own way
you are better than him you did nothing wrong
((((((((((((selfy)))))))))))))))
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