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Originally Posted by SilverTrees
Oh I am sorry Night Whistle. I assumed you were a woman. I don't know why. It makes sense that the gay community has its own set of rules. All groups are different. I am a straight woman and based on what you and gay friends have shared, I'm sorry that I don't have too much to offer.
Just one thing to add, I had a male gay friend who told me that he was offended when he went out with men and they assumed that he wanted to have **** sex right away. I don't know if that helps you at all. Just wanted to share some truth.
There must be some other men on PC who can help. If in doubt, head over to the sex forum. Good luck  |
No you're right, some of us give out our "love" more freely than others. I'm also not very clear with them about what I want. I don't go in saying "I'm looking for a longterm relationship" because 1) that's gonna scare them off and 2) I also don't know if that's what I want with this particular guy. I think a relationship should develop organically over time.
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