Ah...you are welcome tat2dr....

You know, sometimes the relationships we are in, no matter how much we care or love the other individual, are toxic relationships, for whatever reason. Sometimes, as much as it hurts to let go of that relationship, it's time to do so for our own sanity. Other times, we decide to buck up and deal the best we can with what we have to work with. It's a matter of coming to terms in our own hearts with what we feel and what we NEED to do for ourselves.

I obviously don't know you or your girlfriend, so I can't comment on her relationship with God and what she thinks/feels he is telling her. I would not venture into that realm with anyone I don't know...LOL.

All I know is that when I've been in relationships with no communication or we are not on the same page, after doing everything I thought I could do, I had to come to grips with the reality that it just isn't going anywhere and it's time to regroup and take care of me. Hopefully you will be able to filter through your heart and mind and find a resolution soon, one way or the other.

Wishing you the best.


sabby