Thank you so much for your help. It's so good just to be able to talk to someone about this!

I will look into services close to her. My mom and dad will be heading back to help her clean up...(they're in their 70's). Dad plans on "saying what needs to be said". He is very narrow minded when it comes to mental illness and he is REALLY against medication of any kind. I wonder how THAT'S going to work for him. He also plans on telling her to get rid of all her animals...(she has 4 dogs, 3-5 cats, ....and more). Things will get interesting! I just hope he doesn't make her so mad that we can't ....talk I guess.

Anyway, thanks again. I don't know how to PM so...but thank you.