Neither have I, Hvert. I’ve known people who maneuver to get things when they’re going to be up for grabs, but never anything this blatant.

And I can just only visualize the scene where you try to confront her with her behavior. No, I dont think so.

About the only thing I could think of is to create a pan-family rule of no gifts, ever.

I read where William Shatner used to do this in Star Trek rehearsals if one of the other actors was given a piece of business that he liked. Somehow he’d always work it so the action was given to him instead 💬