I have no fear in posting...I've learnt to ignore posters that for some reason trigger me...not that they are at fault more at this point in my recovery I am unable to deal with them...I am responsible for my own welbeing and if some one is offensive or demeaning I would either ask why or just walk away..in a perfect world we would recieve replys exactly as we would want them to be...but here like any where else in the big world isnt' perfect...thats why there are ignore buttons....