Would you believe me too at times? I always preview my posts, edit them, and when in upset even after I've posted I'll pull them, edit them and sometimes delete them also.
I'm sorry you are feeling this across the forums though.

You just posted fine, this thread, imo.
If you post something and the Community Team Member doesn't find anything wrong with it, it stays...and if someone posts something negative, notify the moderator (so they see it ahead of when they might come across just reading) and let them fix it.
All posts are to be supportive by nature. Maybe we've eased a bit away from that? IDK. But it's a good reminder for me to keep on that previewing posts!
((((hugs))))