My father’s parents were cruel to my Mom with a gift. They purposely did it to retaliate because she complained to my father about something they did for them that was generous but completely invalidating. So they gave her a gift that was obviously trash but presented it like it was the real thing. It was a mink coat, but it was this hideous rat-like pelt. This was in the 50’s when mink was in. She instantly recognized it was not a mink coat and a cruel joke, but she acted like it was a mink coat just to be polite and they laughed at her cruelly. Nice family much? Do I wonder why she has issues?