I have bipolar that is treated very well with medication. Is she on medication? Does she have a psychiatrist? Unfortunately bipolar is very much an issue with the individual with the bipolar and there is nothing you can do to stop these episodes or prevent them and when they happen you have to wait them out. I know you say you love her and she loves you but you two just might not be right for each other without some serious individual therapy on your own. Its important to get to the bottom of the drug issue because that mucks everything up. And as you can see even one time can do it. Ecstasy is rough stuff it affects all the chemicals in the brain and completely washes them out. So it makes sense that if affected you both. She is not showing you the same amount of interest for whatever reason and I fear you are hanging on hoping she will change. She may or may not but without therapy and medication, IMO the outlook is weak.
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