Hi Folks,
I found this out a few weeks ago,and thought I would share it with you;it explained much to me.
It is a thing called TRANSFERENCE. Kids do it all the time,at an UNconscious level. Whatever parents say,do,feel,behave,etc.,etc., WE TRANSFER IT to ourselves! But since we do it at unconscious level,we
think any of these behaviours originates in US! We don't know it was from THEM,so we blame ourselves for stuff that does not even BELONG to us.
E.G. I had problem of getting angry at computer cos
it would not do what I wanted . . .I kept trying to overcome this,but could not . . .until,it dawned on me it was from THEM! Every bloody day they would DEMAND that I do this or that at breakneck speed "or I'll f...in KILL YOU",see what I mean? So at unconscious level,I was DEMANDING that computer do what I wanted . . .or else. Jesus!
If you think this over,things will come to you in bits and pieces,it will be THIS,and then THAT,and OH MY GOD! Maybe you could sit down with pen+paper and make list of things you would like to get rid of in dear self,and see if you could make a connection back to them. Hope I've explained it clearly enough,and it is helpful to you.
Deepest Respect,
BLUEDOVE