Yeah, i agree with Perna

I just want to add a little thing about her "talking to God"....

I think has she really been talking to God or at least LISTEN MORE CLOSELY to what he (well let`s admit God is not a he or a she) she wouldn`t say that because God wouldn`t tell you to do anything....

This is a problem that you can THINK you hear lots of stuff "from God" and then THROW ON GOD YOUR OWN RESPONSIBILITY for your decision. What a pitty she doesn`t see a tehrapist, or a spiritual.... if i were her mother i would DRAG her to one!
It was HER decision not to have sex with you, not "God`s decission"

You say you ask her directly about your relationship and she doesn`t say anything?

She doesn`t want to express herself?
or she just doesn`t have any oppinions or feelings to share with you?