UPDATE

So my friend showed me her outfit and...Well, it genuinely looks like a fetish outfit. She said it would be discrete but it's not. It's a full body spandex suit and it covers her entire face. Mouth, nose, ears, eyes, everything. She said she can breathe but has trouble seeing in it. I can't leave her by herself if she has trouble seeing. She would need help navigating the event and stuff like that. The whole thing has me anxious.

Again, I know I'm being selfish and only thinking about myself. This is very important for her but I feel like a fetish play party would have been the best place to wear this outfit. Not an open event.