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Originally Posted by golden_eve
My dear, please don't consider such drastic measures. He is not rejecting YOU. He stated in his profile that he is only looking for friendship, and it turns out, it's because he is leaving the country. He is just sticking to his own word. Please don't take that to mean you are ugly, worthless and unwanted. That is very extreme! Your emotions have taken over and you are taking this the completely wrong way. Please think logically about it.
Just as a sidenote: if you are this unstable, should you be on online dating sites? Just wondering. We have to be able to take various forms of true rejection through online dating without becoming suicidal. IF you are in fact thinking suicidal thoughts over one guy that you became friends with, perhaps dating is not a good idea. Just some thoughts for you.
The way to get over it is to just go on about your life and enjoy it!! Be with friends, go out, do things you enjoy and immerse yourself in your life.
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thank you for responding. I was so lonely and did self harm a lot until I decided I wanna go social and talk to a lot of people. That’s one of reason I use tinder. So far I’ve met nice people and socializing makes me feel a lot better. But it’s just the first time I fall for someone from dating app, it’s ridiculous.
And don’t worry, I’m past my suicidal thoughts [emoji2] I only do self harm recently and clean for a month now. And I didn’t do it after he rejected me
which means a good thing.