I frequently create ranking systems for perceived needs and wants. I think my problem is I never put my needs or want in the list. Then when they are ignored, I get resentful. I resent that everyone else's needs take priority over my own--- but I'm the %#@&#! who did the ranking in the first place.

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mouse said:
....as long as we are genuine in the moment with any one person then they/we are coming first..

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Wow!