Dear T: why didn't we discuss SUI last session? We danced around it. I didn't bring it up explicitly, so that is my fault. But why couldn't you have asked questions when I said stuff like, well not if I die. Were you just not paying me heed? Did you think I'm okay because I haven't SH-ed. See that's one reason why I need SH, it can communicate that I'm not okay when I'm not communicating with words. Yes, I know it's something I need to work on. But I'm not there yet. Can you help me or not? Kit