I have certain co-dependency traits. After a lot of reading about the subject, everything fits perfectly except for the cause. Every resource I look at states that these sorts of issues are caused by childhood neglect or abuse. However, I come from a loving and supportive family, who I have always had good relations with and who I value and respect. Since most treatment comes through confronting these particular issues, I'm stuck with a lot of advice that doesn't really fit my case. I can't find any information about other causes, so I'm at a bit of a loss trying to find information that can help. Does anyone know of any resources that deal with codependency without pointing the finger at early developmental stagnation?