I agree with you 100% but I can't argue, or reason with someone with a closed mind....and that's very frustrating. And if I were to say the same thing, "God told me to do this or that", she'd come back with something similar to what you said about using the excuse of God to express your own thoughts/feelings...I know, I've already done it when I told her that God told me to stay and fight for the relationship...She said I heard myself telling myself what I wanted to hear...But I'm convinced that she should see a counselor but she won't go...

Like they say, you can't save a drowning person till they stop struggling and give up...

But thanks for the reply. At least I know I can still think clearly...And I'm not the only one that sees it as I do...