Thanks everyone! I appreciate the support and validation of my feelings!

It’s really only the bride to be I find to be off putting. She’s loud and kind of obnoxious.

I like sarah’s idea of a time limit and prior commitment. That way I do the right thing and also limit my time.

I guess I just feel uneasy because I don’t know anyone. I’m never comfortable in that situation. And I’ll have to go solo .. they all know each other.

And it’s not as though these women are my fiancé’s friends. Like I said before she’s the bride of one of his best friends. His friends are the guys and a few of the women from this crew.

Oh I wish it were easier! I also love the notion of completely bailing and sending a nice gift!!! Lol.