Oh friends...this has been so helpful!

He did mention wanting to go to this place, where we had NEVER been before, to hear a band he had no clue about. When I went back through Facebook and checked the "event," sure enough, she had clicked "going" to this event. So it is very possible he had seen that she was going, then suggested to me that we should go, and then oopsie! Met up with her there for the very first time, after clicking like after like after like on her pictures.

That's a lot of plotting and scheming on his part, but that very well could be what happened...then he saw her and went right over and introduced himself, with me there as his cover chick.

I don't know...does this sound like something a man would do? It's sure sounding suspicious, now that I looked back at the Facebook event. What great detectives you are!