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Originally Posted by Sisabel
My H tells me to just ignore those comments. Just don’t worry about it and let it go. He says we have to make the choices that are best for us and not be influenced or annoyed by what other people say.
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I like your husband's advice.
People are nosey nellies and like to butt into each other's lives when they think they know best. It can trigger me too, these types of people.
Just ignore their inquiries. Deflect with "thanks for your concern" and change the subject. If you tell them, "stop bringing that up b/c it annoys me!" they won't understand (these types have no filter AND terrible boundaries).
You are absolutely correct that your life and choices is nobody's business.