How do I become a more likeable person? How do I stop being a negative person? I try to be positive when talking to people but they still don’t like me. They usually reject me. It hurts. I don’t know what I’m doing wrong. I take an interest in others. I also have often been rejected online. I always blame myself for my mistakes and I blame myself every time I’m rejected. I see others being happy in groups. I’m a loner I suppose. . But I want to be more social. I try now to always be very careful what I say as being rejected hurts me so much. I also don’t want to hurt anyone. It bothers me when people don’t like me. Do you think therapy would help me?